Start Dating site messages

Dating site messages

As we said earlier, it might not be the most romantic approach and a little analytical for some, but if it gets results then what’s to lose?

Unlike an everyday face to face meeting where the words just tumble from your mouth in no apparent order.

So why is it that so many guys and girls (yes girls too) fail miserably in avoiding the move from the Inbox to the trash can?

Nothing starts a conversation quicker than a question, so do yourself a huge favour and simply ask one.

I know this is not marketing school but, like a marketer, you are trying to reel someone in.

Theirs might be the most beautiful smile in the world, but pointing that fact out in a first message will most likely be a turn off.

While everybody enjoys compliments on their looks, focusing too much on physical looks seems to imply shallowness.

Putting yourself down or being a little shy or awkward can come across rather endearing.

Whereas as over confidence can often be a turn off in a first message.

Unless you are actively seeking a partner of a specific faith, then it is probably a good idea to leave out any religious words in your first message.

That’s not to say you should never mention your religion, but unless it is very important to you, then you can leave it till you meet in person.

A little awkwardness might work, but too much and you’ll seem more Mr Bean than Ryan Gosling.